Disconnecting to Reconnect

Today, I did something I never thought I would do at work. I ended a nearly three-year relationship. Why talk about my personal drama on the Walker blog? You see, my practically vintage iPhone 4S took a water-logged journey earlier this morning, and we are no longer on functional terms.

My phone is with me constantly. Tweeting, Facebooking, Instagramming, texting, emailing. It is always clutched firmly in my hand, sitting on the table next to me, or tucked in my pocket (not so securely, I might add). And yet here I am staring at my screen as the camera lens is clouded by water droplets, texts struggle to send, and Siri annoyingly keeps urging me to “Slide to power off.” Is the universe telling me something?

Let’s take a journey back in time to Wednesday. The now infamous “Look Up” video had been making its way around (and around and around) the Internet for a few days. As with most feel-good videos that go viral quickly, I ignored it, scrolling past and rolling my eyes every time I saw it in my newsfeed. “This video? Again?”

After seeing it posted for the umpteenth time, I caved. I watched it. And I am so glad I did. In the opening of the video, writer-director Gary Turk says in a voice-over:

This media we call social is anything but
When we open up our computers and it’s our doors we shut
All this technology we have, it’s just an illusion
Community, companionship, a sense of inclusion

One of the things that is so wonderful about Walker is the emphasis on meaningful relationships that inspire transformative learning. Social media is both a fun and powerful tool that can be used for great things, and creating meaningful relationships can certainly be one of them. However, when our alums return to campus and they reflect on their time at Walker, their memories don’t involve apps or tablets or smart phones – they involve lively class discussions, traditions like Senior Walk, and lasting friendships with both students and teachers.

So look up from your phone
Shut down those displays
We have a finite existence
A set number of days

As educators and mentors to students who can nearly all be classified as digital natives, it is so important to practice what we preach. How can students take us seriously when we walk into classrooms and sing the praises of using social media sparingly, and then proceed to stare at our phones during any free time we might have?

So don’t give into a life where you follow the hype
Give people your love, don’t give them you like
Disconnect from the need to be heard and defined
Go out into the world
Leave distractions behind

Is the video a little sentimental? Sure. Is it a little ironic that social media is responsible for nearly all of the 32.5 million views the video now has? Definitely. But the message is clear.  Unplug from your phones. Marvel at the world around you. Take it all in. Have a real conversation – one that does not involve autocorrect.  Disconnect to reconnect. This is what we tell our students, and this is what we need to practice as adults.

This weekend I’m going to look up. I’m not going to scroll through Twitter (or play Candy Crush) while I drink my morning coffee. I’m not going to stop my entire family from eating Mother’s Day brunch because I need to Instagram the meal first.  I’m not going to be so fixated on documenting an experience that I miss out on actually seeing, breathing, living the experience. Thanks, water-logged iPhone.

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